Dolce Vita

For all those times you stood by me For all the truth that you made me see... For all the joy you brought to my life... For all the wrong that you made right... For every dream you made come true... For all the love I found in you.... I'll be forever thankful baby... You're the one who held me up... Never let me fall... You're the one who saw me through through it all... You were my strength when I was weak... You were my voice when I couldn't speak... You were my eyes when I couldn't see... You saw the best there was in me.... Lifted me up when I couldn't reach... You gave me faith 'coz you believed... I'm everything I am... Because you loved me... You gave me wings and made me fly... You touched my hand I could touch the sky... I lost my faith, you gave it back to me... You said no star was out of reach... You stood by me and I stood tall... I had your love I had it all... I'm grateful for each day you gave me... Maybe I don't know that much... But I know this much is true.... I was blessed because I was loved by you... You were my strength when I was weak... You were my voice when I couldn't speak... You were my eyes when I couldn't see... You saw the best there was in me... Lifted me up when I couldn't reach.... You gave me faith 'coz you believed... I'm everything I am... Because you loved me... You were always there for me... The tender wind that carried me... A light in the dark shining your love into my life... You've been my inspiration... Through the lies you were the truth... My world is a better place because of you... You were my strength when I was weak... You were my voice when I couldn't speak... You were my eyes when I couldn't see... You saw the best there was in me... Lifted me up when I couldn't reach... You gave me faith 'coz you believed... I'm everything I am... Because you loved me... I'm everything I am... Because you loved me.....

Wednesday, March 23, 2005

I was just going through some texts on Buddhism and came across this paragraph. It kind of answers so many queries. Just felt like putting it here :

"They connected suffering to the very impermanence of things. They observed how people lamented over the loss of a loved one, or experienced sorrow when something or someone that had once given them happiness became separated from them. They noted that even human pleasures were not immune from suffering because they didn't last forever, and the loss of pleasure inevitably left people feeling deprived. Seeing as how clinging to things (that were necessarily impermanent) was one of the primary causes of dukkha, they cautioned against excessive attachment. At the same time, they recognized a recurring and more general type of existential unease and anxiety (aniccha) that arises from the very transience of life, and our inability to control or comprehend all worldly phenomenon, which they characterized as viparinama-dukkha. "

As a formula (char-mulya) for addressing these different types of suffering, the Buddhists advocated a four-fold scheme of
a) recognizing the problem i.e. suffering (dukkha);
b) identifying the cause of the suffering - such as craving stemming from ignorance (samudaya) ;
c) establishing the goal of ending the problem (nirodha) - i.e. the cessation of suffering (nirvana);
d) conducting life in a manner that was consistent with the cessation of suffering - following the right path or engaging in the right practice (marga).

Followers were thus goaded into developing both a sense of personal ethics and a social conscience:

"He who has understanding and great wisdom does not think of harming himself or another, nor of harming both alike. He rather thinks of his own welfare, of that of others, of that of both, and of the welfare of the whole world. In that way one shows understanding and great wisdom." Anguttara Nikaya - (Gradual Sayings)

6 Comments:

  • At 7:19 PM, March 23, 2005, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Hi.
    Just was going through your february blog archives...must say many of the stories were very insightful...I wanted to give a comment on each one but then i just couldnt manage to get my lazy bones up and do the same so thought of making all in one comment..

    The text on buddhism was very deep i feel..but at times i find contradictions in it as well..for eq buddha says root cause of suffering is desire hence one shud abstain from the same.......isnt that a desire as well...

    In ur feb post i liked the cracked pot story a lot!!!

    and the INSANE test...motor car one..i did go insane...lol

    Sometimes I wonder where do u get all this funny and insightful stuff frm..

    I like your blog's personality....but u know what... I feel do put a lot more of your own thoughts as well!!!

    And last thing..is ur name pronounced as ZA or JA is fine....do let me know..:)

    Regards
    Shirish

     
  • At 8:24 PM, March 23, 2005, Blogger pooza said…

    Hi shirish

    I know I should write about my personal thoughts more. But my creativity has taken a back seat these days because of exams. If I write will end up writing poems on Sigmund Freud :D

    Once my exams are over I will have all the time in this world :)

    The desire one you wrote ..true even not to have desire is a desire but is it a harmful one? A desire is good as long as it is not an obsession. A desire to succeed is fine as long as it is not an obsession to succeed. Obsession and addiction to something is a desire of getting that particular thing that maynot always give us pleasure. I personaly liked the paragraph a lot shirish. It has helped me a lot :)

    When it comes to where I get those stuff from...thats a secret..LOL

    Take care
    Pooza

     
  • At 8:24 PM, March 23, 2005, Blogger pooza said…

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  • At 1:49 AM, March 24, 2005, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    buddhism gr8 one of my area of interest..especially tibbetian buddhism..like the way they analyse the different facets of life..the way they try to reason out the different desires...the aspirations..sufferings..n all...have been to rumtek n dharamsala twice..n interacted with some of the learned monks..must say have gained quite a lot from my short interactions with them..also will say a must read life in tibbet by Tuesday Loblang Lama ..the personal physician of his Holiness Dalai Lama ...one of the best books on tibbetian buddhism that i have read... take care n keep smiling :-)

     
  • At 2:42 AM, March 24, 2005, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    oops sorry the name of the author is tuesday lobdang lama*
    :-)

     
  • At 2:21 PM, March 24, 2005, Blogger pooza said…

    Hi saikat,

    That sounds so interesting.Why dont you share some of your experiences with us. What did you learn ? and all...Any good message you got from them. Even I am very fond of knowing about their textx and all...It seems so interesting :)
    Take care
    pooza

     

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