Continued from the previous post

The man's past was playing a major role in his present.
His past:
When he was doing his engineering in Bangalore, their hostel or the place where he stayed was at a km or so distance from his college. Everyday when going to college he used to pass through 2-3 huge palatial buildings. In one of those buildings stayed a beautiful girl. He used to see her in the garden everyday. Even she used to mark him. They started liking each other and even started meeting in some restaurant nearby. Both of them liked and appreciated each other equally. But this guy feared that the girls family would never like it, because he was from a poor family, and again wondered if even this girl can accept the kind of lifestyle he would offer her.

One day he said all this to her and for some reasons even told her that they should stop seeing each other. This girl told him that if he liked her then he would tell her this in 7 days else she would kill herself and went away. The guy felt she cant be serious, why would she do so. Seven days passed away, he didnt contact her, one of the reasons being that he was very busy all those 7 days because of exams.

Then whenever he passed by her house he would stand in front of the house for few minutes and wish he could just get to see her once. He tried to contact her, but could not. Then he went to that restaurant where the girl usualy went with her friends. They told him that she had not been to that place for the last 10 days or so. He couldnt stop himself and went to her place and got to know that she was dead.

They told her she had killed herself. They told him the date(exactly when 7 days were over) and that it was even out in the newspaper. Her body was recovered by people near some river(I dont remember the name of the river or where it was). The girl used to wear yellow sarees when they met. This guy was feeling guilty all his life, felt he was responsible for her death. Thats why he used to see yellow waves(the colour of the saree the girl used to wear).

With few sessions with the psychologists his condition improved. He became more consistent in his work, and the frequency of seeing yellow waves drastically reduced. With more and more sessions and his own interest to come out of the problem, he almost completely changed himself, his approach, his attitude. Now he is a consistent, hardworking, tallented man and he and his wife are leading a normal life somewhere in Bangalore.

Its 3:30 am now, and I am tired of writing, felt like taking a break and what better break than blogging :)
Just remembered an interesting case-study our sir shared with us in class. Well its something that realy happened to someone. In other words a true life story :)

Name :with-held(well it was with-held from us too)
Location :Bangalore(india)

There was this man, an engineer in his early 30s. He was very hardworking, tallented and intelligent. Wherever he worked he was praised, he could complete 20 days work in 10 days and well after that stop going to his office. Stop means completely stop. He would never go to that office again, give no explanation, and get thrown out of that office. This went on. His wife was very perturbed,there was no apparent reason for her husband`s doing this. He was otherwise a completely normal person.

She decided to get psychological help for her husband. She consulted some Psychologists in a very popular hospital in Bangalore. They asked her to give some data about her husband. They asked her a few questions and she replied. Her husband used to say that he frequently saw yellow waves in front of his eyes,nobody else could see it. This used to make him very restless. He would even become sick. And the wife said that she could hear her husband saying something when sleeping, but she couldnt hear it clearly because he used to say it so slowly. And when after getting up she would ask him, he too would have completely forgotten what he said. The psychologists gave her this device, with which sounds, words very very slowly said could be recorded. She used it to record what her husband said. And the next day gave it to the psychologists. They then worked on it and by using few more devices(am trying not to get technical here) could hear what he said clearly.

And well the poor wife never knew that all the secret, the root cause of the problem was being told to her every night,but she could never hear it. Well now I need to get back to writing that is completing my project work.

What he used to say and what happened to him ultimately in my next post.

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